Jargon

A

Ass noun The posterior; bottom, bum, buns, buttocks, arse.

Anal Sex noun Sexual activity where the erect penis penetrates the anus.

B

Balls noun Testicles; the organ that produces sperm and hang down from behind the penis.

BDSM noun abbr Bondage, discipline, sadism, masochism. Sexual activity that involves the role-playing of power inequality. Examples include: tying a partner up, giving and receiving pain for pleasure.

Bear noun A hairy and/or heavy-set gay or bisexual man.

Blowjob noun Oral sex performed on a man. The insertion of the penis into the mouth for stimulation.

Boner noun An erection. When a man becomes aroused and blood flow into the penis makes it grow and stiffen.

Bridge noun The gap that is formed between the waistband of underwear and between the hips, usually visible when lying down. It allows for a tantilising view into the underwear.

Bulge noun The visible presence of the penis in clothing. A boner bulge would be to experience an erection while wearing figure-hugging underwear.

Buns noun The buttocks. Usually referred to a firm, perhaps younger ass.

Butt Plug noun A sex toy that is inserted into the anus, either for pleasure, to stretch and relax the anus or both.

C

Chastity Cage noun A sex toy that is locked on to the flaccid penis with the intention of preventing erections and/or sexual activity. Often used in BDSM to control the user.

Cock noun Another word used to describe the penis.

Cock Ring noun A sex toy that is placed around the base of the erect penis, or sometimes also around the scrotum. It traps blood in the penis allowing the wearer to often maintain an erection for longer.

Cock Stroking verb The act of male masturbating; to wank one’s boner.

Cross Dressing verb To wear clothing typical of the opposite sex. For example, many men like to wear female underwear garments.

Cum noun Semen, spunk, jizz… the synonyms could go on forever. The resulting fluid ejected from the penis during ejaculation.

Cumming verb The climax of sexual activity when an orgasm is achieved. With men, this results in ejaculation.

Curator noun The keeper or custodian of a museum or other collection. For Cheeky Boners, this is the person in charge of the website, for it is they who decide on the images to post.

D

Dick noun Another word used to describe the penis.

Dildo noun A sex toy shaped like an erect penis used for sexual stimulation. Some variants have additional features such as the ability to vibrate, or to stimulate multiple areas similtaneously.

Dogging verb The practice of watching or engaging in exhibitionist sexual activity in a public place.

Doggy Style noun A sexual position in which the receiving partner is on all fours and the giving partner is penetrating from behind.

E

Edging verb Bringing yourself close to climax while masturbating and intentionally stopping momentarily before starting again. Continuous start-stopping prolongs the act of masturbation often resulting in a stronger, more powerful orgasm.

Ejaculation noun The release of semen from the penis during orgasm. Often referred to as cumming.

Erection noun When a man becomes aroused and blood flow into the penis makes it grow and stiffen. Sometimes referred to as a boner or hard-on.

Exhibitionist noun Engaged in sexual activity in a public space for others to witness.

F

Fapping verb Sexually stimulating your genitals for pleasure. The act of masturbation.

Femboy noun contr A male person who will often present themselves in a feminine manner. This behavior may be exhibited part of the time, or all of the time. Not necessarily cross-dressers, not tied to any sexual orientation or preference.

Fingering verb The insertion of fingers into the vagina and/or anus for sexual pleasure. The act of masturbating.

Flashing verb The act of exposing your genitalia in public to another unsuspecting person for sexual gratification.

Fleshlight noun A brand of sex toy that simulates an orifice. The penis is inserted for pleasure during masturbation.

G

Gape noun Enlarged or relaxed anus, usually the result of prolonged penetration.

Golden Shower noun The act of urinating on another person for sexual gratification.

Group Sex noun Sexual activity involving more than two people. Not tied to any sexual orientation or preference.

H

Hairy noun Men who have an abundance of hair on their bodies.

Handjob noun The act of masturbating another man’s erect penis. To wank someone other than yourself.

Hard-On noun An erect penis.

J

Jerking-Off verb Sexually stimulating your genitals for pleasure. The act of masturbation.

Jizz noun Semen, spunk, cum… the synonyms could go on forever. The resulting fluid ejected from the penis during ejaculation.

L

Lingerie noun Women’s underwear, often referring to sexy underwear designed to titillate and cause arousal in either the wearer or someone else when viewed.

M

Manscaped noun The trimming and/or styling of pubic hair.

Masturbating verb Sexually stimulating your genitals for pleasure.

Missionary Style noun A sexual position in which the receiving partner is on their back and the giving partner is penetrating while on top.

Mutual Masturbation noun Sexual activity where two or more individuals stimulate each other’s genitals at the same time. For men, the act of giving and receiving a handjob at the same time.

N

Naturist noun A person who allows themselves to be nude in designated areas. Often called a nudist.

Nudist noun A person who allows themselves to be nude in designated areas. Sometimes referred to as a naturist.

O

Oral Sex noun Sexual activity in which the genitals of one partner are stimulated by the mouth and/or tongue of the other; fellatio or cunnilingus.

Orgasm noun The climax of sexual activity.

Orgy noun Group sex involving more than two people. Often referred to parties that involve indiscriminate sexual activity.

P

Pale noun A person with light skin. They are not tanned.

Panties noun Underwear, generally for females.

Pantyjob noun The act of masturbation by trapping the penis in another person’s underwear. The rubbing of the penis between skin and the fabric of the underwear can cause arousal and sexual gratification.

Pegging verb The act of penetrating the anus with a strap-on dildo.

Pissing verb The act of urinating on another person for sexual gratification. Also referred to as a golden shower.

Prone Bone noun A sexual position similar to Doggy Style, in which the receiving partner is on their front (face-down) and the giving partner is penetrating from behind and on top. The receiving partner’s legs are closed, thus tightening the orifice and heightening the sexual experience for both.

R

Reach Around noun The act of masturbating a partner from behind, reaching around their body to stimulate their genitals.

Riding verb A sexual position whereby the giving partner is in a seated postion or laying on their back and the receiving partner straddles them on their knees.

Rimming verb The act of using one’s tongue on the anal rim of another person in order to gain and/or give sexual pleasure.

S

Self-Serving verb The sexual act of a male being able to perform oral sex on himself; to give himself a blowjob, to suck himself off.

Semi noun The state of the penis between flaccid and erect.

Sissy noun A male person who will present themselves in a feminine manner.

Sixty-Nine noun A sexual position whereby the genitals of two people are similtaneously stimulated by the other’s mouth and/or tongue. The act of performing oral sex on each other at the same time.

Smooth noun The result of hair removal. The body appears smooth and supple.

Spanking verb The act of hitting a partner’s buttocks for sexual pleasure, either with your hand or with a tool such as a paddle or riding crop. Often a part of BDSM.

Speedos noun A brand of figure-hugging swimwear.

Spunk noun Semen, cum, jizz… the synonyms could go on forever. The resulting fluid ejected from the penis during ejaculation.

T

Tanlines noun The result of becoming suntanned while wearing clothing, leaving areas of the body paler in comparison.

Tease noun To show very minimal amounts of genitalia and/or pubic hair to cause arousal.

Tied noun To be restrained, often with rope around the wrists and/or ankles. Often used in BDSM.

Toned noun To have a physically fit body while not overly muscular.

Trimmed noun The trimming and/or styling of pubic hair. Not completely smooth, but not considered hairy either.

Twink noun An attractive, boyish-looking, young gay man. Stereotypically 18-22, slender with little or no body hair, often blonde.

U

Underwear noun Garments of clothing typically worn under outer garments that extend down from the waist and cover the genitals. Many different varieties exist and more information can be found on the dedicated underwear page.

V

Vibrator noun A sex toy often shaped like an erect penis that has the ability to vibrate, causing stimulation of genitals/anus when inserted.

Voyeur noun The act of gaining sexual pleasure from watching others when they are naked or engaged in sexual activity.

W

Wanking verb Sexually stimulating your genitals for pleasure. The act of masturbation.

Whipping verb To spank your partner using a long, leathery implement. Often used in BDSM.